Eavesdrop on any pre-date pep talk, and you’ll probably hear the typical woman-to-woman dating advice: Play it cool, do your hair like this—and whatever you do, don’t wear that. But while those traditional tips aren’t necessarily wrong, there are other, way more important traits that research shows men find attractive—and they have nothing to do with your physical appearance.
When you first met someone, what is the first thing you notice? We bet your answer will be different from your sister, or mother or friend. It may be you notice some physical trait or the sound of his voice or the way he handles a conversation. The answer will vary depending on the person making the acquaintance. When it comes to attraction between men and women, things are not different.
Aside from physical appearances, men are attracted to much more. Below I will be revealing some things that men really like. Stick around
Men like women that are comfortable with who they are (physically, emotionally, intellectually), some found that very sexy. They feel attracted to women who own everything they are, who are Ok with their imperfections and their curves.
Self- confidence can be display in your every day with all you do. For example, when you’re having a conversation with him, don’t just nod and laugh at what he says, challenge him, make bold statements that can help drive the conversation, make him think. Men are attracted to confident women, next time you enter a room, walk with your head high and own it.
- AN OLDER APPEARANCE
It can be tough when those first few grey hairs show up, or when you realize that you’re suddenly in the next higher age bracket. But a more mature appearance is exactly what some men find the most attractive.
- A POSITIVE ATTITUDE
It’s easy to go to your dark places if you focus solely on the bad things that happen near you and around the world, but this won’t help you with him. Men like women that can maintain a positive attitude towards life, we don’t mean that you have to be all laughs and giggles all the time, just try to be positive about the outcomes.
- WEARING A MAN’S DRESS SHIRT.
Especially when it’s worn the way men should never wear it—oversized, hovering over bare legs, with three buttons unbuttoned. Yep, that’s one thing men find attractive in women.
- Goofing off every now and then.
Men love it when women goof off: think and act in an out-of-the-box manner. It speaks of individuality and confidence.
Men are attracted to women who are good listeners and show empathy. For example, you’re having a conversation with a guy and he gets excited when he starts talking about a project he’s going to start, if you share his excitement and encourage him to keep talking about it, he’s going to be very attracted to you.
We know you’re awesome, but for that awesomeness to show you need to leave something to mystery, that will intrigue him and he’ll find you more attractive. Don’t “blow your own trumpet”, that’s going to get you the opposite of attraction, you’ll send him away.
- YOUR HAIR
Men are attracted to thick and healthy hair because it’s associated with health, youth, and vitality. You add long to the list and you’ve got some very powerful sex stimulant A well-styled hair can have a man on his knees too. So ladies, start taking good care of your hair.
- YOUR LIPS
Fuller lips are the most attractive to men. They are attracted to lips that look thick and youthful, so if you don’t have fuller lips by nature, that’s why lipstick and gloss are for.